Thursday, 31 March 2016

Back from the dead (figuratively speaking)

Well hello anyone passing by. I'ts been a tad long since I was here, I am sorry but I've had a good excuse honestly. Just ask my mum, she'll write me a sick note to explain lol.

Seriously though I have been quite poorly. I've had so many different medications and treatments I've lost count. None have really helped except regular infusions of a type of Chemo. Some have made me so ill I honestly felt like I was dying. That sounds a little dramatic maybe but if you've never been there just pray you never do.

Now I promise you this isn't a post to get pity and people feeling sorry for me and leaving sympathetic messages, believe me after two and a half years of feeling utterly crap I'm so over it.  Sometimes you just need to get things out of your head and write them down. I don't feel sorry for myself, well not often anyway. I don't deny I have my moments, but on the whole I get on with what I can with a happy heart.  Between the Lupus and medications I started losing my hair and in March last year I had to accept that it had gone too far and I shaved my head of what was left. I have the biggest collection of hats and scarves you've ever seen lol. I will tell you though that I hate it, but it is what it is and no amount of worrying or wishing is going to change it.

I know there will be those among you readers that have illnesses that you cope with like me, there are so many different diseases out there with no cure, little understanding and woefully underfunded for research. Many fall prey to depression and I know only too well how that feels, but I'm lucky, I made a conscious decision back in 1999/2000 when I was diagnosed that I would do everything in my power to not go there, not get that bad and so far I've managed to resist the pull of the dark nightmare.  Yes, I have days when I feel down and sorry for myself, I wouldn't be human if I didn't, but I've always been strong enough to pull myself out of it and get back to enjoying what I can. For me life is way to short to waste it pitying myself. It doesn't do any good, and it eventually turns you into a miserable bitter person and that's not for me, no way no how.  My family have been very good, my close friends and of course Colin my long suffering partner. I don't think any of them will ever know just how much help they are to me, especially in the bad times. I'm so thankful to them for their love and support, and a couple of them that continuously go way above the norm. These people are angels pure and simple, and my debt and gratitude to them could never be paid in this lifetime.

So there you have it. The reason for me being quiet and abandoning my blog. Some people find blogging helps them, but for me it was just something else to try and fit in, something to concentrate on when I had no concentration or focus. When you are struggling to just get through the day doing the bare basics then blogging really isn't high on your priority list.  I am going to try blogging regularly again though. I cant promise that I will stick to it but I can promise to try. After all, I have a couple of years worth of crafty makes to catch up on. If you are among my friends on Facebook then you will likely have seen most of what I post for quite a while, I will be filtering in any new makes though so it may be worth checking now and again.

Talking of crafty things here are a couple of projects for you. They are all Claritystamp samples using Clarity stencils and stamps. I hope you like them.

 Spritzers, stencils and stamps.
 Stencils and ink
Stencils, stamps and glitter embossing paste.
That's it for now, hopefully I will be back soon and not in two years time!!!

14 comments:

Janet Pring said...

Hello Dee and welcome back to blogland! I haven't seen your blog before, I think I must have started after you'd stopped. I am looking forward to seeing your beautiful art on here. I am happy to hear you are feeling better xxx

Doreen said...

Lovely to see you here in blogland Dee.....Love all of your work.xxx

Jacqui Hall said...

Good to see you back in blogland and hopefully things will start to look up a bit. Hugs as always xxxxxxxx

Claire Boelema said...

Good to see you on here Mrs! Cracking cards and I'm so glad that your still up for a bit of craftiness. xxx

trulyjewellery said...

Fabulous makes :)

Fliss said...

Really lovely cards Dee and so sorry to hear you've been so poorly. It's sounds awful and you have my sympathies coming your way.
Wishing you all the best for recovery and hope the blogging helps.
Fliss xx

Martine Smith said...

Hiya babe
Glad you back blogging think its gonno be fun
Great works of art keep them coming
Take care big hugs xxx

Chris Harrison said...

I have been a fan and admirer of your work for so long, hearing your name read out when presenters have been showing examples on TV. I don't know how you have managed to keep producing such gorgeous cards when you have been so ill. Take care of yourself and thank you for the inspiration you have given those of us who are less talented �� xx

June Smith said...

Hi Dee, only recently joined with you as a friend on facebook but I have enjoyed your samples so much, you are one talented and gifted lady. I will be checking back periodically and will understand if you don't blog often, are you going to be doing any groovi blog things as well.

Stay safe, healthy and happy, hugs, June Smith xxx

Linby said...

Welcome back, your work is just too good not to share! Love these makes but my fav are the stencil houses, great use of the stencil.

FauxPainter - Dee Paramour said...

Many Thanks for your comments everyone, I really appreciate you all visiting and leaving me such lovely messages, it's truly heartwarming.

June Smith I will be doing all my makes so yes Groovi samples will be among them.

Julie Owens said...

Hi Dee, lovely to see you blogging again and sharing your beautiful work. You are often in my thoughts but I don't like to bother you to ask xxx

Doreen Sympson said...

Beautiful work as always Dee xx

Ann Barker said...

Hi Dee, It's the first time I have visited your blog and I am so sorry to read how poorly you have been. My best wishes to you and I hope you feel well enough to keep blogging.